Satisfying Senior Sex Doesn’t Depend on the Size of Your Penis!

If you could see the spam filter file for my email, you’d be convinced the most important feature of lovemaking for women is how big your penis is.

Baloney!

They should have asked real women what difference size makes, not someone who is trying to sell some version of modern day snake oil that supposedly will make your penis grow.

Real women agree, it’s not what you got but what you do with what you got that makes the difference.

The only place that size mattered was in a high school locker room during shower time. From what I’ve heard, not having been in a boys locker room myself, penis size was often noticed, commented on, the source of teasing and humiliation by those more endowed.

Same thing happened in the girls’ locker rooms…only about breast size and lift.

It was horrid. Humiliating.

Painful if you were on the receiving end of other kids’ taunting and torture.

So, most teens go home and check themselves by looking down at what the other boys were making fun of.

Sure enough…it is tiny. You can hardly see it.

If you’re lucky, it’s lost in a bed of luxurious curls. At least you have a legitimate reason for size…most of it’s hidden.

If you aren’t so lucky…it’s awful.

Then you tell yourself, they were right. You’ll never be able to satisfy a woman, be a real man, without an adequate ramrod.

Yeah, Right! Let’s get real.

The good news is that most boys continue their growth from adolescence into adulthood through their twenties. Their secondary sexual characteristics, penis size, more regular erections, beard, body hair, all continue to develop beyond the high school years. None of us have the body we did in high school.

When it comes to checking your own penis for size, you were all done in by basic optics.

You can’t judge the size of something by looking down at it. It gets foreshortened (read looks a lot smaller than it really is). Especially when it’s soft, but also when it’s erect.

Looking down always makes it look smaller.

So, don’t panic when looking at yourself in the mirror.

It will always be smaller than you want it to be. Especially if it isn’t erect.

And, don’t count on your penis automatically getting larger even if you do have an erection.

As adults, some men find they only change angle and hardness with an erection…others find their penis will get significantly longer, larger in diameter, or both.

Everyone is different…and all of the above are normal.

Normal.

Not one more normal than another…normal.

It’s like any other body part. We all have everything, and in each of us it looks different. Every nose, ear, finger, penis.

Different than what everyone else has.

You got the one you got.

Just remember, it’s not what you got but what you do with what you got that makes the difference.

And, what you got is more than enough for great senior sex.

It’s not unusual to worry about how adequate we are as lovers. In our intimate lives, we’re all vulnerable.

You can dispel many of your fears with accurate information from a trained professional. Sex Therapist Dr Pat Wiklund has helped countless couples increase the satisfaction they experience with their intimate life. Now, retired, she is focusing on increasing the number of both men and women who find satisfying senior sex is the rule rather than the exception.